If you’re a cat owner, you’ve likely experienced this scenario: after a long day, you crawl into bed, only to find your feline friend already sprawled across your pillow or curled up exactly where you planned to lie.
They don’t move. They don’t negotiate. And somehow, you end up conceding a few inches of space.
While it might feel like your cat is simply being bossy, there’s actually a lot of meaning behind this behavior. When your cat chooses to sleep next to—or even on top of—you, it’s a strong sign that they trust you and feel completely safe in your presence. Here are ten reasons why your cat might claim your spot as their own.
1. They feel completely safe with you
Cats are naturally cautious creatures. Unlike dogs, they aren’t constantly seeking attention, but they are selective about where they sleep. If they choose your bed, it’s because they feel secure and see you as a safe anchor in their world.
2. You’re part of their territory
Sleeping near you is a way for your cat to show ownership. Sharing a resting space isn’t just cozy—it’s a big sign of trust and comfort in your bond.
